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Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present Sugasm #144 - BestSexBloggers.com was Editor’s Choice (Audacia Ray)

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #145? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”?
“The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better succeed.”

First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship
“The only real trouble with being a triad came from the world around us.”

Sex Work And Compassion: Panty Tree
“I will never feel shame for being a sex worker.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
I Meet the Business End of Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Dreams
Needs. I has them.
On Feeling June Cleaverish
Saturday Night
Strippers and race
The Sunday Squirt
Under the Covers
Whenever we’re apart…

Sex Humor
Impertinent Question: Do You Name Your Genitals?

BDSM & Fetish
Anatomy of a Mindfuck
Brutal caning punishments for school girls’ filthy behaviour
Caning; La marca del deseo.
Claire Adams Does Some Wonderful Shibari Rigging In This Scene From The Whipped-Pussy Archives
Mz Berlin (Me!) & Madison Young In Bondage Slave Training
Ring Around the Collar
Two school girls in uniform spanked and caned over the bench.
Witch Stories
Whoring Hubby Spanked - F/m Spanking Pix

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Using Coke And Lying About It
Controlling the Urge to Ejaculate
How To Pick A Dildo
Pull My Hair, Slap Me Around - A How-To Guide To Rough Sex, Part 1

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Catalina loves Masculinity
It’s been a while - lots of stuff going on!
Satine Phoenix Says, “Save thousands on therapy, go to your reunion!!?”
Wax On; Wacks Off

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Fetish Model Toxxxy In Cotton Panties Smearing Jam All Over Herself
FunseXXXtoys Public Baptismal
The Jollie Review For Babeland
Sex on Spout
Sgt Major Makes Jade Marxxx Beg For Pain On Backdoor Bondage
Spanking interview with Thomas S. Roche

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #21: Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net
Elaisted is to Corset Photography what Phelps is to Swimming!
Photo Essay

Sex & Politics
The Dilemma of Jefferson: My Dissenting Voice
Friends of Jefferson, Spanking for Justice!

Note: While the Sugasm is back there are still a few bugs to sort out. The submission form isn’t working. For now please send your submission to me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom If you don’t see your post above it probably got lost during the server move. The featured pic will be returning soon. Thanks for your patience!

Mr. and Mrs. Kink and The Best Sex Bloggers (in the world!)

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Looking for a good blog with all the best sex bloggers and erotic photography in one place?  You’re in luck!  We were, too.   BestSexBloggers.com is it!

The best sex bloggers collaborate with the best erotic and bondage photographers to produce the best sex blog content you’ll find in one place on the internet.  Here’s a rundown of what you’ll find here (in no particular order other than as it comes to me):

BDSM, Dom, Domme, Submissive, Online D/s, Vanilla, Queer, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Poly, Psychology, Sexuality, Discussion, Photography, Sociology, Podcasts, Bondage (including beautiful rope bondage by well-respected bondage artists), Erotic Fiction, Tales of Adventures, Sexual Fantasies, Hot Couples, Kink, Fetish, Phone Sex Operators, Professional Sex Writers, Reviews, Photoblogs, Education and Information, Smut, Filth, Flirting, HNT, Networking, Featured Artists, Local Events, Poetry, and even just once in a while a tale about the weird lives we tend to lead.

Represented here are:

Catalina Loves
Marky D. Sade

The Accidental Blowjob
Aiming to Arouse
Altered Aperture
Blue-Eyed Vixen
Bottoms Up! …and, and then some
BT Charles
Curvaceous Dee
Dangerous Lilly
Diary of a Kinky Librarian
Easily Aroused
Eclectic Enchantress
Ellie Lumpesse
The Enigmatic Angel
Erocrush
Essin’ Em
Exjinn.net
Fanny Lucette
FetLIfe
Graydancer
His lolidoll
Janice
Kinkerbelle
Mystress Lady Evyl
Lady Sascha
A Little Cinful
Lochai
Long Distance Sub
Married Exploits
Ms. Nikki Nefarious
Narration by D
Naughty Secretary
Priapus
Radical Vixen
Reality Nemesis
Sakura Sarashi
Sapphire J
Scarlet Lotus
Stark-Arts
Sugarbutch Chronicles
Sweatshop Sissy
Thursday’s Child
Tits For Troops
Trufetish
Unspeakable Axe

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August 5th, 2008 at 2:42 am

Posted in Altered Aperture, Best Sex Bloggers, Breathplay.info, Catalina Loves, Catalina Says, Cause We Say So, Corset and Collar, Couples, D/s, Erocrush, Fantasy, FetLife, Fetish, Her, Kinky Thinky, Lochai, Marky D. Sade, Masturbation, Ms Nikki Nefarious, Podcasts, Polyamory, Thursday and D, Toys and Gear, What's Sexy To Us

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Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present The Good Things List (#6)

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This week’s Good Things List is brought to you by the letter V (for valium) and the number 10 (for the dose)… and readers like you!  (PS: JOIN FETLIFE!)

A Good Blog To Read

Narration by D is this week’s blog pick.  D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child.  It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.”   D is in my BILF list.  His wife is also in my BILF list.  They as a couple are in my BILF list.  Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!

A Good Toy

I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity.  I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price.  You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!).  You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally.  I just love it!  Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation.  That matters!

A Good Photographer

ErocrushMelvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush.  His work is special to me.  He is special to me.  I consider him a very good friend.  He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs.  I know that you have enjoyed them.  Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market.  He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys.  With real women, that he enjoys.  With real couples.  One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there.  It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur.  I love Melvin.  I want Melvin to shoot me.  With any luck at all, this fall, he will.  Then I will have my way with him!  If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site.  Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!

A Good Pay Site

Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site.  She has been shooting their own content like crazy.  She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women.  This is Brand Spanking New!  January isn’t, of course.  She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it! 

A Good Blogger Resource

The Week In Kink.  Duh.  I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note.  Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com.  I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm.  It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts.  :)

A Good Group

It’s widely known that I love FetLife.  I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special.  What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!)  If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group.  The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.

A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source

This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more.  Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields.  Now, you can learn from them.  Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there.  Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai?  Oh my…  You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams.  OMG.  I’m in heaven. 

Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Unbelievably Good Sex Last Night

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[Another great photo by Erocrush - you may notice I use a lot of his photos.  I'm a fan.]

Last night’s sex was heavenly.  I mean that.  For one thing, my right shoulder has been incredibly painful for the last week and while laid out over the Liberator ramp and wedge, my shoulder didn’t hurt for the first time.  But that’s not the best thing about the Liberator!

Mr. Kink and I are really excited about the Liberator after one night.  We got out the ramp and the wedge, unzipped the cases, and placed them them on the bed. Within minutes I was on tummy over the end and Marky was flogging me.  It was awesome.  Very shortly flogging turned to spanking turned to paddling turned to fucking me from behind.

We both marveled at how perfectly positioned we were, and beyond that, how unbelievably comfortable it made sex.  We aren’t old, by any means.  Marky is 40 and I’m 29 (haha), but the support under my body was undeniably perfect for me and the positioning for Marky was undeniably perfect for him.  We made sweet (naughty, slutty) love for a half an hour like that.  It was truly blissful.

Then I rolled onto my back and he moved to my side and I sucked his cock and balls while he fingered my (dripping by this point) pussy.  He came on my face with his balls in my mouth and fingers deep inside of me and then swiftly moved down to the end of the ramp to lick my clit to orgasm, which was achieved in about 3 minutes.  It was delightful.

I can’t remember enjoying sex as much as I did last night.  Ever.  It was perfect.  Thank You Liberator!  Oh, and I’ll post a full review of my Liberator Black Label Ramp/Wedge combo on CatalinaLoves.com soon - we want to try it a few more times, play with the cuffs and tethers, etc.  Thorough research is required. (:

D/s is like meditation to me

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[Photography by Melvin Moten, Jr. / Erocrush]

The other night I was lying on my tummy, my collar and blindfold on, getting a little spanking when it occurred to me - D/s is like meditation to me. I am focused on the moment. There is no earlier, there is no later… it’s just right now. Nothing else matters in that moment except for the sensations - sensations that I’m incredibly tuned into and focused on, like feeling His breath on my neck.

That’s the attraction to me. To feel completely in tune with my body. I love feeling my heartbeat pulse through my body. I love it that all of my cells are alive and tingling after I have an orgasm, the same way I feel after doing an hour of yoga. I love the shaking in my legs from sheer exhaustion. I even look forward to the cathartic cry that follows intense orgasm for me - not as a result of shame or pain, but the sheer release of stress.

To be completely lost in the moment is my goal. Escape, maybe. Release, certainly. Namaste.

Written by Catalina

May 31st, 2008 at 12:05 am

Posted in D/s, Erocrush, Her, Kinky Thinky

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Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Kinky Week

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[Photo by Melvin Moten, Jr. / Erocrush]

With all the new blogs we’re updating daily, I thought you might like a Week In Review.

The first post of the New Toy Tuesday reviews premiered on Catalina Loves this week. I also finally finished my interview with Satine Phoenix and took some new freckle photos.

Catalina Says has a series I wrote this week on starting your own sex blog, monetizing your sex blog, and increasing traffic to your sex blog.

The Momme Domme blog has more in the series of My Naughty Thoughts. My favorites are r’s naughty thoughts on squirting, r’s naughty thoughts on orgasmic expressions (with a hot pic of January Seraph having an orgasm).

I finally found the photographer of The Corset that Started It All and posted his pictures on Corset and Collar. There’s a nice little story there about how Martin Pelzer impacted my metamorphosis without even knowing it. There is also a lot of eye candy there for people who like sexy women in corsets and/or collars.

My favorite posts this week on Breathplay.info are a gasmask/latex fetish picture by Altered Aperture, a bondage/religion fetish picture, and Anna Rose’s perfect ballet heel fetish picture.

I personally think that Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com) is hotter than ever, but I might be a little biased. I wrote about a badly needed night of D/s, a strap-on fantasy, and the possibility of doing Dom/Domme scene with Mr. Kink.

And finally, if you go to Marky D. Sade’s sexy bondage blog, you’ll find a really cool Claire Adams scene, a bondage threesome post, and of course, a Mz. Berlin FemDom scene (HOT!) and January Seraph FemDom scene.

So there are my favorites for the week. I hope you find something you really enjoy! Please leave a comment wherever you go, so that I know what you want to see more of.

Mr. and Mrs. Domination

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[Photo by Melvin Moten, Jr. / Erocrush]

In my business as a professional dominatrix, I find myself often in a situation where I would like to work with a Dom. Clients sometimes reveal during interrogation that they have fantasies of being dominated by a couple or taken by a man, being forced to suck his cock, and/or being forced to swallow his cum. So recently I’ve considered working with Marky D. Sade.

I’m not sure how that would go. It’s a little strange for me to imagine, honestly. I’ve never been dominant in Marky’s presence, that I can recall. I’ve taken control a few times in the bedroom, but I don’t think that he’s ever seen Mistress Catalina. I wonder if he’ll still see me as his little girl or if it will change the dynamic of our relationship.

My other concern: Marky isn’t bisexual. He’s not opposed to the idea, but he doesn’t exactly jump at the opportunity either. I don’t doubt that he can “pull it off”, but I don’t want him to just do it to go through the motions - ideally, he would get something out of it as well.

I am curious, though, and I think it’s time to dive in and find out what the water’s like.

Written by Catalina

May 27th, 2008 at 12:30 am

The Best Of The Week In Sex Blogs (Sugasm #133)

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[Photography by Erocrush]

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #134? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Giving a Damn
“Something happened somewhere along the way, though. I began to care.”

Catalina loves “Better Sex Through Yoga”
“I’ve tried a lot of things, as you can imagine, but there were even a few new things in there for me!”

Reality Check: Dealing With Assholes
“Being able to decline a call is great but bills still need to be paid.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
The Secret Lives of Plants

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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Infidelity - An International Pastime
Misc. Letters
Rant: Strip clubs are for customers, not dancers
Top Ten Law Phrases That Sound Dirty, but Aren’t

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Mistress Claire Adams Dominates Sarah Jane Ceylon on Hogtied
Sasha Grey HotMovies Interview
Site Review: Into The Attic
The Ultimate Smoking Fetish Movie - Julie Simone’s Smoking Interviews 3

Erotic Writing and Experiences
And Closer Still
Doin’ It Like A Porn Star
Fucking the co-worker
Ode to Anal - Sebastian, and the anal bond
The Ruf Guide to Coital Stamina
She’s Got Teeth
Smoking please.
So… who are you tonight?
Subway Ride
The West End Experience

Sex Work
My Naughty Thoughts

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #15: JohnBaku of FetLife and the G Twist Vibrator
Bouquet
Duck Race HNT
Flirtatious little bows -HNT
Guy fucks a black mouth in free video
Half-Nekkid @5:30 am
Hot Asian webcam girl made me cum hard
Julia S. - Bellisssima
Missed Show Punishment Spanking - Video Clip
Mistress Seven and Mistress Porsche Lynn shopping
Mistress Zena trampling a lucky sub
Putu (Hegre-Art)
Video: Cock Teasing, Twice-Coming Fun!

Sex Advice
Advice: My Boyfriend Won’t Go Down on Me
Greater Intimacy Through Tantric Sex
On Desire
Reader Asks: I Haven’t Met Her, But Should She Leave Him?
Smelling Like Sweet Romance?? - The Dangers of Douching

BDSM & Fetish
Anniversary, fatigue and quickies
Another Interesting Morning
Arrival
Beating
Follow My Rules-Part II
Haunt Hunt, But No Goth Cunt
Learning My Limits (part 3)
My IMsL 2008 Trip – Part 6
Parachutes and Panties
Stock and Bonds, ch. 2
Summertime, And The Piggies Are Easy
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