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Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Kinky Picks (The Week In Kink #9)
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Sex Blog Picks For The Week! I’ve been trying to decide how to do The Week in Kink now that normally the people I would feature are almost all on BestSexBloggers.com. One thing I want to try is a call for submissions. Send your best/favorite post to me at CatalinaLoves@gmail.com and I will take a look at it. If it passes the Catalina loves… test, then I’ll use it in The Week In Kink, which is posted at TheWeekInKink.com and cross-posted all over teh internets.
CatalinaLoves.com:
CatalinaSays.com:
- Learn How To Tie Someone Up and Help Someone Out at The Same Time
- Every Day Gets Weirder Than The Day Before
MarkyDSade.com:
- Mz Berlin and Charlotte Vale in The Training of O
- The Sarge and Backdoor Bondage Have Great Impact Play and Hogtied Style Bondage Content
BackdoorBondageBlog.com:
Nawalochai.com:
IntoTheAttic.com:
The Accidental Blowjob:
The Femmes Guide:
Dungeonplace.com:
Mz Berlin’s Blog:
Lady Sascha’s Blog:
BestSexBloggers.com:
::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present Sugasm #144 - BestSexBloggers.com was Editor’s Choice (Audacia Ray)
Favorite by Erocrush.com
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #145? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”?
“The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better succeed.”
First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship
“The only real trouble with being a triad came from the world around us.”
Sex Work And Compassion: Panty Tree
“I will never feel shame for being a sex worker.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
I Meet the Business End of Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Dreams
Needs. I has them.
On Feeling June Cleaverish
Saturday Night
Strippers and race
The Sunday Squirt
Under the Covers
Whenever we’re apart…
Sex Humor
Impertinent Question: Do You Name Your Genitals?
BDSM & Fetish
Anatomy of a Mindfuck
Brutal caning punishments for school girls’ filthy behaviour
Caning; La marca del deseo.
Claire Adams Does Some Wonderful Shibari Rigging In This Scene From The Whipped-Pussy Archives
Mz Berlin (Me!) & Madison Young In Bondage Slave Training
Ring Around the Collar
Two school girls in uniform spanked and caned over the bench.
Witch Stories
Whoring Hubby Spanked - F/m Spanking Pix
Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Using Coke And Lying About It
Controlling the Urge to Ejaculate
How To Pick A Dildo
Pull My Hair, Slap Me Around - A How-To Guide To Rough Sex, Part 1
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Catalina loves Masculinity
It’s been a while - lots of stuff going on!
Satine Phoenix Says, “Save thousands on therapy, go to your reunion!!?”
Wax On; Wacks Off
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Fetish Model Toxxxy In Cotton Panties Smearing Jam All Over Herself
FunseXXXtoys Public Baptismal
The Jollie Review For Babeland
Sex on Spout
Sgt Major Makes Jade Marxxx Beg For Pain On Backdoor Bondage
Spanking interview with Thomas S. Roche
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #21: Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net
Elaisted is to Corset Photography what Phelps is to Swimming!
Photo Essay
Sex & Politics
The Dilemma of Jefferson: My Dissenting Voice
Friends of Jefferson, Spanking for Justice!
Note: While the Sugasm is back there are still a few bugs to sort out. The submission form isn’t working. For now please send your submission to me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom If you don’t see your post above it probably got lost during the server move. The featured pic will be returning soon. Thanks for your patience!
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Congratulate Lochai On His New Position At Hogtied.com (Kink.com)
Lochai "working" at Hogtied.com
SAN FRANCISCO (August 22, 2008) – Award-winning fine art bondage photographer Lochai will take over from Matt Williams as director of Kink.com’s Hogtied.com, the company announced today.
“Hogtied was our first site and we still consider it our flagship,” said Kink.com founder and CEO Peter Acworth. “We’re very pleased to bring Lochai on to continue the Hogtied tradition. He’s one of the best-known bondage riggers around and for years he’s been out there in the community, both as a photographer and as an educator. Most importantly, he really gets what’s fun and beautiful and hot about women in bondage – he understands the Kink.com esthetic. I’m very much looking forward to working with him.”
Lochai’s inaugural update on Hogtied.com is a sizzling 56-minute scene with 22-year-old Virginian beauty Isobel Wren. Shot when Lochai was auditioning for his new role, the scene currently headlines the site, In it, Wren is placed in Lochai’s trademark Japanese-influenced rope bondage and subjected to a stunning number of screaming orgasms, including a copious squirt. Throughout, Lochai’s sardonic humor tempers the intense bondage and stimulation.
Said Lochai:
“Everything that’s done in any of the Kink.com sites is real, so it’s not like I’m acting a part. I’m actually being myself. I’m sarcastic, I’m a smart ass, I laugh during scenes and I also console when someone’s upset. I’m going to be doing my real play, my real life, within the walls of the Armory, because that’s what’s expected by the customers — and that’s what’s expected by Kink.com. I’m going to be super comfortable there, because I feel like I’m home.”
An award winning photographer whose work appears in galleries as well as in publications like The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, and in his own fine art books, Lochai is equally well known as a bondage educator, teaching classes at conferences around the United States and doing public scenes in nightclubs and at fetish events. A founding director of the Photo Artisans Guild (PAG), in West Palm Beach Florida, he was also the co-founder and co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show, which spent two years touring the United States. He also moderates a group on BDSM social networking site FetLife, CommUNITY Building, that seeks to build BDSM and alternative sexuality leadership skills.
Lochai takes over from longtime Hogtied.com director Matt Williams, who began directing the site in 2003. Williams was recently promoted to Kink.com’s Creative Director, and will be guiding creative development on new sites as well as Kink.com’s existing sites. “I’m looking forward to helping with the overall creative level,” said Williams. “I’m going to work with existing sites and new sites both, developing the look and feel, and sharing fantasies that I have in my head — I have great ideas for each one of our sites.”
Williams will continue to direct unscripted girl-girl erotic wrestling site UltimateSurrender.com, which he calls “my little baby.” “I’m going to hang on to that – I have some great ideas for the future.”
Lochai expressed his excitement about his new role.
“Every person who’s ever sat down in front of me in a classroom, or who has surrounded me out in a club to watch what I’m doing, has wanted this job. They want to get paid to tie up beautiful women and get them off – and that’s my job. It’s a wonderful feeling, and an affirmation that my kink pays off.”
A longtime Florida resident, Lochai will be relocating in September to the San Francisco area. He says he’ll continue his work teaching bondage and SM lifestyle classes, both at the half-dozen conferences he traditionally attends annually, and in the San Francisco area.
For more information about Lochai, visit his site Kirinawa.com or email the Kink.com Public Relations Manager at thomas@kink.com. Webmasters interested in promoting Kink.com content, including Hogtied.com, please visit www.KinkyDollars.com or email the Kink.com affiliate manager at terry@kink.com.
ABOUT HOGTIED.COM: Hogtied was the first site in the Kink.com network, directed by founder Peter Acworth from 1997 until Matt Williams took over in 2003. Updated every Tuesday, Hogtied.com offers members more than 15,000 streaming minutes and more than 84,000 photos in over 400 episodes that feature beautiful women subjected to sexual rope bondage, erotic punishment, and repeated orgasms.
ABOUT KINK.COM: San Francisco erotica studio Kink.com provides authentic fetish entertainment that seeks to demystify alternative sexualities and inspire sexual adventurers. Since the launch of its first site, Hogtied.com, in 1997, Kink.com has developed a network of premium adult sites that now operate from studios in the San Francisco Armory, a decommissioned National Guard facility with sets ranging from stark dungeons to luxurious pieds-à-terre. Kink.com also operates a free documentary site at BehindKink.com and the leading fetish affiliate network, KinkyDollars.com.
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present The Week In Kink #8b
ProPhotoTours.com - Side-by-Side, Start-to-Finish Photographic Workshops
Last week I took the easy way out and sent you to BestSexBloggers.com. This week I did my homework! I included blogs that aren’t on BestSexBloggers.com. Of course I’ll start with a synopsis of our own blogs. We haven’t been writing as much of our own content - this week we became the marketing department for Fetlife.com. If you haven’t checked out Fetlife yet, what are you waiting for? It’s the best social networking site for kinky people just like you!
This week’s Week In Kink is brought to you by the caffeine and nicotine keeping me awake to write it.
Catalina Loves:
Catalina Says:
Mr. and Mrs. Kink.com:
Breathplay.info:
Sgt. Major’s Briefing Room:
Mz Berlin’s Blog:
- Me (Mz Berlin) and Madison Young in Training of O
- Mz Berlin Knows That You’re Not Audrey Hollander - Anal Toys for The Rest of Us
Satine Phoenix’s Blog:
- Satine Phoenix is Shibari Bound and Forced to Cum on Hogtied.com
- Satine Phoenix says, “Save Thousands and Go To Your High School Reunion”
Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:
Waking Vixen:
Marky D. Sade’s Bondage Blog:
Mr. and Mrs. Kink and The Best Sex Bloggers (in the world!)
Graphic Design by Naughty Secretary
Looking for a good blog with all the best sex bloggers and erotic photography in one place? You’re in luck! We were, too. BestSexBloggers.com is it!
The best sex bloggers collaborate with the best erotic and bondage photographers to produce the best sex blog content you’ll find in one place on the internet. Here’s a rundown of what you’ll find here (in no particular order other than as it comes to me):
BDSM, Dom, Domme, Submissive, Online D/s, Vanilla, Queer, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Poly, Psychology, Sexuality, Discussion, Photography, Sociology, Podcasts, Bondage (including beautiful rope bondage by well-respected bondage artists), Erotic Fiction, Tales of Adventures, Sexual Fantasies, Hot Couples, Kink, Fetish, Phone Sex Operators, Professional Sex Writers, Reviews, Photoblogs, Education and Information, Smut, Filth, Flirting, HNT, Networking, Featured Artists, Local Events, Poetry, and even just once in a while a tale about the weird lives we tend to lead.
Represented here are:
The Accidental Blowjob
Aiming to Arouse
Altered Aperture
Blue-Eyed Vixen
Bottoms Up! …and, and then some
BT Charles
Curvaceous Dee
Dangerous Lilly
Diary of a Kinky Librarian
Easily Aroused
Eclectic Enchantress
Ellie Lumpesse
The Enigmatic Angel
Erocrush
Essin’ Em
Exjinn.net
Fanny Lucette
FetLIfe
Graydancer
His lolidoll
Janice
Kinkerbelle
Mystress Lady Evyl
Lady Sascha
A Little Cinful
Lochai
Long Distance Sub
Married Exploits
Ms. Nikki Nefarious
Narration by D
Naughty Secretary
Priapus
Radical Vixen
Reality Nemesis
Sakura Sarashi
Sapphire J
Scarlet Lotus
Stark-Arts
Sugarbutch Chronicles
Sweatshop Sissy
Thursday’s Child
Tits For Troops
Trufetish
Unspeakable Axe
Mrs. Kink’s Good Things List (#8)
Viva la Vida by Coldplay
All the best things I could find for you in one week, and some things I have forgotten to include for a while now. I’m a little late this weekend, because I spent a little too much time socializing. However, in my own defense, against myself, I would say that I have worked 18 hour days 7 days a week for … what seems like an eternity. Okay, enough self-rationalization. I’m late, but no rabbit had to die. Here is this week’s Good Things List - hopefully it’s a better version than Martha’s.
A Good Blog To Read!
Fanny Lucette is a Ph.D. psychology professor, with M.A. degrees in related fields. She has been a counselor and educator for many years. She recently wrote a guest post for me on Catalina Loves (thank you thank you thank you!!) and she will be joining the new community blog that will launch soon at bestsexbloggers.com. Her blog is not a sex blog per se, but as she describes it on her page, “All of us have questions about relationships, sexual thoughts or behaviors. My life experiences and professional credentials will help you sort through it all.” So take a look and hit your RSS feeds because you’ll want to keep up with Ms. Lucette once you’ve started reading.
A Good (Strap On) Dildo
Strap on play. Three little words, but they can invoke an entire mental scene, can’t they? Strap-on sex. Imagine the scene. Is it a lesbian scene? Do you see it as a Domme/sub scene? Is it a loving couple experimenting with assplay together? It really can be any and it can be all. The fact is, I have used strapons with women, as a professional dominatrix, and also as a loving wife (even a submissive loving wife, at that). I choose the Corsette Harness as my new favorite strap on harness because it’s soft, velvety, black, feminine, and (important for practical purposes) it adjusts easily so it’s easy to slip in and out of gracefully.
A Good Podcast
Graydancer’s “The Ropecast” is the new home of the premiere rope bondage podcast. This podcast talks about kinky sex, consensual adult bondage, and discusses dominance, submission, sado-masochism, and the iniquieties of the square knot in a frank, open, and entertaining way. (I didn’t write that, by the way, but it is all true and well-written, so why re-invent the wheel? I copied and pasted from The Ropecast site).
A Good Book
It’s going to become very obvious to you soon, so I’ll just ‘fess up now - I am definitely kissing Graydancer’s ass this week. Why? Because I’ve admired him for so long and I practically begged him to be a part of bestsexbloggers.com. I told him that I would, in fact, kiss his ass, if he would join. He joined, so here is Graydancer’s book, Nawashi - A Novel of Erotic Magic. Take a lookee and buy a coppee.
A Good Educational Opportunity
Did you know that you can take free courses online from MIT (yes, that’s the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, MIT). Well, kind of. Read carefully, but essentially they make their course materials available online and though you don’t get credit for it, you can learn for the sake of learning. Now here’s the cool thing, to me, anyway. I thought that MIT only offered courses in science and math. I was wrong. Here is the course description of the course I’m currently taking:
Este semestre la materia combina obras ya canonizadas de finales del siglo XIX y del XX con algunas obras de reciente aparición. De los géneros literarios, vemos poesía, el cuento corto, la novela y la autobiografía. También vemos una película de tema ficticio y dos documentales. El estudiante que se interese por hacerlo puede usar los materiales en la Reserva y en la red para familiarizarse con la historia literaria y cinematográfica de este período. Nuestro enfoque principal, sin embargo, será leer bien y de modo analítico, textos literarios de diferentes momentos históricos y culturas nacionales (e internacionales). Aunque discutiremos analíticamente las tres películas, su interés principal para nosotros será, en un caso, conocer el argumento ideológico de una novela muy famosa e influyente que, por falta de tiempo, no vamos a poder leer en sus totalidad, y en los dos otros casos, para contextualizar una autobiografía y tener un punto de comparación para estudiar cómo se puede reconstruir la memoria simultáneamente individual y colectiva. Otros temas, que se estudiarán en varias obras, serán el bilingüismo (español/inglés) en ciertos escritores hispanoamericanos contemporáneos, y el auge de la novela best seller en la América Hispana.
So, in case you can’t tell, that’s an advanced Spanish literature course. Who knew I could brush up on my primary field of study with free online courses from MIT?! I just found out recently, but I’m on it! The Catalina Downer Disclaimer: You might have to buy books and don’t forget that books are not free. Ever. So, though the courses are free, you can’t necessarily say that you can take any class you want for free. Sorry. But this is about as close as you can get!
A Good Corset (and lingerie)
Mio Destino is located in Europe, but delivers worldwide and has a domestic office. Their corsets are undeniably quality. You’re not buying an ebay corset, this is the one you’ve been saving up for. They aren’t so horribly expensive that you can’t afford it unless you’re married to a very wealthy international finance attorney, however, they’re not cheap either. The selection is unbelievable - corsets by designer, shape, by fabric, corsets to wear out, bridal corsets, underbust corsets, and corset skirts. They are the way to go if you’re in the market for that special one.
A (PERFECT) Album
Viva la Vida by Coldplay is amazing. Brian Eno produced it, so when I first heard it, I rejected it stating simply, “I’m not interested in listening to another U2 album.” What a bitch! Now, I come back with my official opinion - “This is the best Coldplay album yet.” You must listen to it through headphones. That’s my only caveat. It sounds good over speakers, and it sounds great in the car, but there is something special about listening to it in the headphones, like being able to hear Chris quietly count off. Also, I own the official album and then I also have the special Marky D. Sade found this two weeks before it was released version. The difference is that I have two extra tracks - Lost (acoustic) and Lovers in Japan (acoustic). The trick is that you have to listen to the album, looped, without the two extra tracks. Let song 10 fade into song 1. I won’t give it away here, but just do it. It’s neato. I think my favorite song right now is Strawberry Swing. It’s a great way to start the day - Chris Martin telling you it’s such a perfect day.
Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Week In Kink
Image by Lochai (http://kirinawa.com)
The weeks sexiest, kinkiest, hottest, blog posts, BDSM scenes, NSFW pics, HNTs, and so much more! That’s The Week in Kink. Catalina chooses her favorite blog posts from her blogs and her friends’ blogs and put them here for you kinky people to read. The Week in Kink is different than The Sugasm because they are all chosen by the editor rather than submitted by the writers. You should check out The Sugasm if you enjoy a weekly digest of the best sex blog posts. It comes out on a different day and generally features different posts than those I’ve chosen. Tell Vixen I sent you :)
And now, without further adieu, I present This Week’s Sexiest Blog Posts…
Catalina Loves - Class And Intellect With A Naughty Twist:
Catalina Says - A Very Opinionated Girl:
The Momme Domme - From Pro Momme to Pro Domme:
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com) - A Very Kinky Marriage:
Corset and Collar:
Breathplay.info - A Very Diverse Fetish Blog:
- Amazing Gas Mask Fetish Rope Bondage Picture with Two Fetish Models
- Lady Sacha + Honey = Lickable and Yummy!
Marky D. Sade - A Very Sexy Bondage/Hardcore BDSM Blog:
- Bondage slut Satine Phoenix in Bondage and Forced Orgasm Scene on Fucking Machines
- Famed Dom Sgt. Major Brings His Slutty Friends To Backdoor Bondage
Mz Berlin’s Blog:
- Superstrings > Sillystring: Mz Berlin’s Elegant Universe
- I, Mz Berlin, Have Fetish, Bondage, FemDom, Shibari, and Humiliation Videos in my Clips4Sale Store
Satine Phoenix’s Blog:
Naughty Secretary:
Narration by D:
Thursday’s Child:
Ellie Lumpesse - Pretentious Pervert:
Sgt. Major’s Briefing Room:
Diary of a Kinky Librarian:
The Accidental Blowjob:
Well, that should keep you busy reading for a while. Sorry that this week’s edition of The Week in Kink is late. It’s because I was off having fun! (GASP) Yes, sometimes I get away from my desk and actually enter the 3-D world and socialize. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t have anything good to write about! :) Enjoy Your Kinky Week!
The image above is by Lochai. Anybody who follows any of my blogs knows about my crush on Lochai and his wife. Check out Lochai’s page at Kirinawa.com and also look at the Lochai categories on Catalina Loves and Catalina Says for more about Lochai and his wonderfulness. Thank you, Lochai, for letting me use your images so freely. I am a very lucky girl.
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Aren’t The Only Kinky Ones… Take A Look!
Hot Spanking Image by AlteredAperture.com
Each week the editor of The Week in Kink chooses two posts from her favorite sex blogs to highlight. It’s so difficult to choose just two.
Catalina Loves:
Catalina Says:
The Momme Domme:
Corset and Collar:
- Mz Berlin Took This Picture of Herself in Her New Corset From Wasp Creations
- Sexy B&W Corset Photo by Fetish-Photography.net
Breathplay Fetish Blog:
- Gas Mask Play and Forced Orgasms on Wired Pussy (with Satine Phoenix)
- The Hottest Gasmask Fetish Erotica I’ve Ever Read
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):
Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:
- The Coolest Bondage Fetish Edgeplay Picture Ever Taken
- Madison Young in Medical Fetish Bondage Scene on Sex and Submission
Ms. Nikki Nefarious:
Naughty Secretary:
Easily Aroused:
Thursday’s Child:
Narration by D:
Ellie Lumpesse:
Curvaceous Dee:
Mz Berlin’s Blog:
- Jewell Marceau knocks me out and has her filthy way with me (Clips4Sale)
- Mz Berlin misses out on ultraviolence and the old in/out, no droogs or drugs
Kinkerbelle:
Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. The Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list, the list grows and grows and grows… maybe we should start doing it twice a week? The mid-week in kink? I don’t know. You tell me!