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A Good Blog To Read
Narration by D is this week’s blog pick. D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child. It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.” D is in my BILF list. His wife is also in my BILF list. They as a couple are in my BILF list. Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!
A Good Toy
I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity. I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price. You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!). You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally. I just love it! Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation. That matters!
A Good Photographer
Erocrush. Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush. His work is special to me. He is special to me. I consider him a very good friend. He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs. I know that you have enjoyed them. Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market. He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys. With real women, that he enjoys. With real couples. One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there. It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur. I love Melvin. I want Melvin to shoot me. With any luck at all, this fall, he will. Then I will have my way with him! If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site. Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!
A Good Pay Site
Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site. She has been shooting their own content like crazy. She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women. This is Brand Spanking New! January isn’t, of course. She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it!
A Good Blogger Resource
The Week In Kink. Duh. I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note. Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com. I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm. It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts. :)
A Good Group
It’s widely known that I love FetLife. I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special. What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!) If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group. The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.
A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source
This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more. Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields. Now, you can learn from them. Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there. Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai? Oh my… You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams. OMG. I’m in heaven.
I want to try to write all of this down before it fades into this evening’s adventure. Last night after the baby went to sleep I was told to put on my collar and find all of my toys and lay them out nicely on the end table. I grabbed my Feeldoe, several dildos, three different colored candles, my Hitachi Magic Wand with the attachments, the thigh harness dildo, the flogger, the paddle, the crop, the handcuffs that go with the Liberator sex wedges, rope, bondage tape, and my lead. I laid out the liberator wedge and ramp on the bed and spread a sheet over it. They are washable, but I was thinking there might be wax play involved and I didn’t want them to be ruined. Ultimately I’d like to get one of the Fascinator Throes because it is soft and silky to the touch, but waterproof for girls like me who squirt. Click on the Liberator main page, then on Boudoir, then on Fascinator Throes. They are really worth the investment for kinksters like me (and probably you!)
Okay, so back to the night. I set everything out at the side of the bed and sat, waiting on my knees, until He came back into the room and took it from my hands to put around my neck.
“Lie back and spread your legs for me,” he said, as he blindfolded me.
I obediently complied, spreading my legs open as far as I could, bringing my knees to my chest. Then I felt him place clamps on my nipples, one at a time, as delicious pain washed over my body sending a pulse to my clit. When they were in place he played with them a bit, tugging at them slightly and tightening them just a bit. My hips already were responding in a gyrating motion.
I felt him move away for a moment, only to feel him open my pussy with a speculum and pour olive oil into my cunt. “This is to get you good and wet, slut, because you’re going to need it tonight.”
“Yes, Master,” I replied sweetly.
He played with my open cunt for some time, examining my cervix, noting the threadlike wire that comes out of my cervix from my IUD. He placed his fingers inside of me, swishing around the oil and placing his fingers into my mouth and all over my face.
He played for quite some time with my pussy - touching me in different areas to see my reaction to each pleasure zone. He blew up a long balloon and fucked me with it through the speculum. He filled my cunt with cotton balls and then drew the out one by one with forceps. He took pictures of my wide open pussy for all to see at his whim. And then, when he’d finished playing with my open pussy, he removed the speculum only to replace it with his fist. He put the Hitachi on my clit with his fist inside of my cunt and I felt my entire pelvis vibrate. “May I cum?” I asked.
Denied. Instead. He pulled his fist out of my pussy and removed the Hitachi from my cunt. I felt something even bigger pushing its way into my swollen fuckhole. “Guess what that is?” MDS asked me.
“The big dildo?” I asked.
“Wrong!” he slapped the inside of my thighs. “This is a can of soda. Your gaping cunt is taking in an entire can of soda. Whore.”
I pushed against him as he pushed it into my cunt. The stretching pain was exquisite and made me nearly cum. “Now rub your clit, slut,” he said.
I rubbed my clit as he forced the can further and further into my pussy until I had completely taken it in. “Now stop,” he demanded. And like an obedient little whore, I did.
He grabbed the Hitachi again, placing it directly on the can vibrating throughout my entire cunt and into my cervix and uterus. With his free hand, he poured hot red wax all over my clit. Occasionally I could feel the burning wax seep down the edge of the can into my pussy, heating me up from the inside.
Now you’re going to suck your Daddy off. Your job is to keep that can in your pussy using your muscles only. If it comes out, even slightly, you will be punished and I mean punished hard.
He moved to my face and put his cock in my mouth, directly down my throat, fucking my throat like he’s never done before, the entire time dripping hot wax on my clit. Each time the wax hit my clit I sucked a little more vigorously.
“Now suck Daddy’s balls. You know how I like it - you’ve been my whore for nine years now.”
I took each one into my mouth, rolling it over my tongue and squeezing gently between my lips, sometimes taking both into my mouth to let them roll over one and other. I licked his ass and moved back to his balls and then licked his ass some more. I focused my attention with one hand on his cock and my other hand fingering his ass while licking and sucking his balls and within minutes he said to me, “Open your mouth, little girl. I want to fill your mouth up with my cum.” As I sat under him, playing with his balls and ass he squirted his cum into my mouth with perfect aim. “Don’t swallow it, slut. Not until I tell you you can.” I lay there with my mouth wide open, filled with his delicious cum, tasting it with each tastebud on my tongue when he said, “Now you may swish it around in your mouth and when you are ready, you may swallow me.”
I savored his flavor for a minute, letting it drool slightly out of the corners of my mouth only to swipe it back in with my fingers and then swallowed him. I was still cum hungry, though and so I sucked his fingers and cock dry as well.
“Now it’s your turn, little slut. This is where you get to prove to me how much you love me. This is your opportunity to prove your devotion to me. You will do whatever I tell you.”
I nodded my head, still licking the cum from my lips and said, “Yes, Master. You can do anything you want to me anytime you want to.
He pushed the can I still had in my cunt in even further. “I want you to hurt, little slut,” he said as he bit my nipple. “I know you need this intense experience, that just being fucked missionary style on your back would never do for you. You need to be my slut. You need to be my whore. You need to confess all of your dirtiest, nastiest fantasies to me while I give you what you need.”
The dirty thoughts spouted out of me like a fountain… I want to be fucked by men I haven’t even met, men who you chose to come to our house to fuck your wife… men who are standing around jerking off while watching you fuck me like this… men who cum on my face… men who cum all over my pussy as you’re fucking me… men who force my mouth open and fill it with their cum until it pours out of the corners of my mouth… men who will fill up a cup with cum and force me to drink it,,.. men who take their turn fucking me…men who talk about what a worthless slut I am, only good for one thing - fucking… men who hold me down while you violate me in ways I never imagined… men who piss all over my pussy as I masturbate… men who suck each others’ cocks and then feed me the cum out of their mouths…
“Cum, little whore. You have 10 seconds. Cum for me like the little whore you just described.”
I imagined my montage of fantasy and by the time he got to 2, I was begging to cum.
“Cum, but don’t forget who this pussy belongs to. Repeat it over and over - ‘I’m Your Slut, Master. I’m Your Slut Master. I do whatever You tell me to do whenever You tell me to do it. I’ll do anything you want me to do. I’m Your sl…uuuu….t” and I couldn’t say anymore as I gasped for breath.
He pulled me to his chest and hugged me. “Of course you are my slut. And you always will be.”
Even January Seraph puts on her Martha Stewart look for this week’s Good Things List.
A Good Blog To Read
Emerging On The Other Side is the blog written by an overeducated skank (former slut) who is proud of it.
A Good Toy
The Black Label Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is the best! It seems like a just a pretty little strategically cut out piece of foam with a cover, but it’s sooooo much more! It’s great for people (like me) who have back problems and can’t tolerate a traditional hands and knees position for longer than three minutes. I never ever feel pain (except for the good kind!) when we get out our Liberator set.
A Good Great Photographer
Lochai is not only a good photographer, but he is a great artist! He is the photographer responsible for the image at the top of this post! I recently did an interview with Lochai on Catalina Loves. This bit is From his bio on his website Kirinawa.com:
Lochai is an award winning photographer who’s work appears on gallery walls as well in fine art publications & coffee table books. He “shoots for the walls & not the computer screen”. Presently he has his work on display at the Leather Archive & Museum in Chicago, for sale in brick & mortar galleries from Key West Florida to Cyber fine art galleries based out of London as well on many private collectors walls. His images, rope art & interviews have been published in The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, Prometheus, Cherry, A Magazine, Fetish Anthology, Extreme Anthology, New Times and in his own fine art books. His work can also be found on numerous websites from around the world. He is one of the founding directors of PAG, the Photo Artisans Guild, in West Palm Beach Florida. He as also the co-founder & co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show which spent 2 years touring the US.
He feels that the best stories to tell come from the heart and everyone has something hidden that is bursting to come out. “I feel I can touch something inside the heart & head of each person who views my work. For me, I see the real person when I create my images. The real person comes out thru their alter ego.” Starting in Mid June he will be teaching along side David Lawrence & Bobby Knight 3 day intensive workshops on the art of fine art fetish photography. For more information go to http://prophototours.com/
Being an educator & student of bdsm and fetish, Lochai knows how to bring out the look of hidden desires in his models & shows “real” emotions to his audience. He is considered an advanced rope artist who tours the country teaching rope bondage to kinksters from all walks of life & both rigs his own models for his photography as well as for some of the top photographers in the world. “The Art of The Art” is how he looks at his bondage images & he loves to share his knowledge.
On the Bondage side… Lochai has been a student of Japanese inspired rope bondage since a very early age. He has been educating the rope bondage minded in South Florida for the past 8 years as well as across the country for the past 12. He is one of the founding members of the Traveling Rope Troupe comprised of riggers and bottoms who perform theater style aspects of their bondage art as a lead into a series of hands on classes. He can be found on occasion binding beauties and creating living art at local fetish events as well as major exhibitions. “I use the body as a canvas & rope as the medium in creating my art”
A Good Band
I’m partial to this band because it’s my very good friend’s band. Your Dirty Habit is club/dance music and it never leaves my playlist. On their site at Myspace.com/YourDirtyHabit, you can grab the Live Summer 2007 Live Mix - DO IT! I love it!
A Good Pay Site
Backdoor Bondage is the site that belongs to Sgt. Major. His scenes are some of the hottest I’ve seen, ever. Maybe it’s because I’m such a fan of Claire Adams and I’ve seen two scenes with her it them - one where she was being punched in the ass and another where she’s completely suspended upside down being erotically choked. Either way, yum yum.
A Good Webmaster Resource
Kinky Dollars is Kink.com’s affiliate program. We have had great success monetizing our blogs with Kink.com. Click on the little link and you can sign up for your own account.
A Good Non-Sex Science Tattoo Blog
My friend, Zetar, passed this blog along to me and I just have to share it with everyone else. I normally don’t like tattoos, but these tattoos are right up my alley. Nerds meet Ink - Ink meet Nerds. It’s Carl Zimmer’s Science Tattoo Emporium. Frequently when graduate students finish their doctorate (or even Masters) they get a commemorative tattoo. No, not an “I love Betty” tattoo, but cooler. Take a lookee.
A Good Corsetry Site
By now everybody knows that I love corsets. love Love LOVE them! My dream is to have a corset custom made by Isabella Corsetry. Here is some information from her about page:
Isabella Corsetry makes corsets for women, men, and even children (no waist reduction of course), as well as custom bridal gowns, vintage inspired dresses, costumes, and undergarments.
Each corset made by Isabella Costumiere is individually patterned to each customers own measurements . Since no two bodies are exactly the same this means you will get a corset that fits YOUR body. I use a rather long list of measurements and double check each pattern to insure the perfect fit. For long distance customers I can construct a muslin mock up of your corset and mail it to you to try on in the comfort of your own home to make certain your corset is just right. These are inlcuded with every overbust corset.
Well, there you have it - a few new Good Things for you to check out. I’m getting such a backlist that I’m considering doing The Good Things List twice a week instead of just on Saturdays. What do you think?
You walk into the room, close the door and say to me, “Put away your work, tonight you are my kitten.”
It’s been a while since you’ve spoken to me like that. It’s really nice, but I put up a little fight just to see if I can. “Are you kidding? I still have to write something for Catalina Says before I can go to sleep tonight.”
“Nope,” you say as you take my laptop away from me and put it on the top shelf of the closet. “You’re not listening. I said, ‘Put away your work, tonight you are my kitten,’” and walk back with my collar in your hand.
As is our ritual, I bow on my knees before you and wait for the collar to slide around my neck. You stand behind me and remind me of the importance of letting go of control once in a while. It’s true. All I want in the moment is to hand it over to you.
With my collar securely around my neck where it belongs, you reach for the blindfold and cuffs. You slide the blindfold over my eyes, heightening the excitement. I hear the buckles on my cuffs as you reach for my arms to bind them over my head, attaching them to the eye bolt that is hidden behind the pillows. I can feel you take off my clothes, leaving me naked and exposed and completely vulnerable.
Then I hear the camera, that familiar hum as the lens opens up and then click. I wonder what you are taking pictures of, but not for long. You instruct me to open my legs and when I do, I feel my new vibe brush against the inside of my thighs. I feel you slide it inside of me and hear you simultaneously taking pictures. The exhibitionist in me is thrilled, but I could never admit it.
That’s when I feel the Hitachi hit my clit. With the vibe inside of my pussy and the Hitachi on my clit I am nearly out of my mind with pleasure. I can tell that I’m dripping wet. I beg to be allowed to cum. You pull out the vibe and turn off the Hitachi instantly.
“No way, kitten. This is just the beginning…”
