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A Good Blog To Read
Narration by D is this week’s blog pick. D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child. It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.” D is in my BILF list. His wife is also in my BILF list. They as a couple are in my BILF list. Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!
A Good Toy
I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity. I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price. You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!). You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally. I just love it! Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation. That matters!
A Good Photographer
Erocrush. Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush. His work is special to me. He is special to me. I consider him a very good friend. He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs. I know that you have enjoyed them. Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market. He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys. With real women, that he enjoys. With real couples. One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there. It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur. I love Melvin. I want Melvin to shoot me. With any luck at all, this fall, he will. Then I will have my way with him! If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site. Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!
A Good Pay Site
Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site. She has been shooting their own content like crazy. She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women. This is Brand Spanking New! January isn’t, of course. She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it!
A Good Blogger Resource
The Week In Kink. Duh. I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note. Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com. I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm. It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts. :)
A Good Group
It’s widely known that I love FetLife. I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special. What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!) If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group. The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.
A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source
This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more. Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields. Now, you can learn from them. Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there. Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai? Oh my… You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams. OMG. I’m in heaven.
It’s time for The Kinky Week In Review! You’ll see a few new blogs in the list this week. That’s because I’ve added my new site (ColdplayLiveArchive.com) and a couple of friends’ blogs to the The Week In Kink.
I was really busy this week — Nikki and I shot together again for the Liberator review, as well as some fetish video. We started doing some behind the scenes clips, as well, during our shoots. Last night we shot a strap-on scene with a subbie boy. This week I also dug up my version of the framed dollar bill, my first blog post, and reposted it. As it turns out, it’s a good thing I did, since my Myspace was deleted yesterday. Fuck Myspace. It’s the equivalent of having your hard drive crash. Over a year’s worth of blogs and comments and it’s all just gone… forever… without warning. Here’s my new profile.
Catalina Says is more and more evolving into my own personal journal that isn’t necessarily sex related.
This week on TMD there are more of r’s naughty thoughts. They are hot. He talks about wheelchair bondage, enemas, sexual fantasies, submission, and fetishes.
I love doing C&C. It’s fun to pick out pictures and then just write a little something about them. It’s such a non-demanding, easy to administer, blog. It’s the Good Girl of the blog family. This week I customized the CSS code to completely change the layout. I like it. I added a header and made the whole thing black and white. Please drop a comment if you go there and let me know what you think.
Breathplay.info is always interesting because I find new fetishes that interest me as a result of writing the blog. For example, this week I featured a latex nun costume that I thought was really hot.
Our sex is better than ever, due to the new Liberator Sex Shapes and the sweetest love letter ever written from a Husband to his Wife.
It’s no secret that Catalina loves Coldplay. For a while now I’ve owned ColdplayLiveArchive.com and I haven’t done anything with it - so I just started working on it. I won’t post any of my picks from CLA.com because they are all just re-posts at this point, from Catalina Loves. Next week there will be a show for you to download.
Well, I don’t write MDS, but I am including it because it is Marky’s blog.
This is the premiere of Mz. Berlin’s Blog in The Kinky Week In Review. I thought I’d start including some of my friends’ blogs also. Poor Mz. Berlin’s Myspace was deleted this week (fuckers), so please make friends with her at her new Myspace page (Myspace.com/MzBerlin).
I love the Atlanta Bondage Blog because we both have common interests in writing about and promoting fetish models and photographers in a classy way. This is also the first time I’ve included Atlanta Bondage in the Kinky Week in Review. If y’all like it, I’ll keep including my friends.
The Kinky Weekly Update is becoming a tradition. A bunch of people have sent me email saying that they like it. I think I’ll stick with it. What do you think? I hope you’ll keep reading, commenting, and sending me emails so that I know what you want to see more of!
The site had a serious tune-up. I relinked, retagged, and recategorized every single post. I hope there are fewer snaffoos now.
Catalina Says seems to have turned into a personal journal this week.
Just to clarify, TMD is not about age play. This week on TMD there are more of r’s naughty thoughts. I have loved re-reading them. I have a new appreciation for his sexuality. I am even going to do some wheelchair bondage pictures with Altered Aperture for (r) as a reward for his excellent attitude lately.
I gave C&C the same tune-up as Catalina Loves. Corset and Collar didn’t have quite as many posts, but it still took a while. Now you can find your corset models and photographers by name in the category list.
Breathplay got the treatment and so now you can browse through the categories for individual models, photographers, and websites. I think I may still have to change the template though. That one isn’t widget friendly and that makes me grumpy ):
I like the way this is shaping up. We started doing a blast from the past kind of thing once a week because I realized when I was doing blog maintenance this week that I had forgotten about some of the hottest posts about our kinky marriage.
Well, I don’t write MDS, but I am including it because it is Marky’s blog.
[Photo by Melvin Moten, Jr. / Erocrush]
With all the new blogs we’re updating daily, I thought you might like a Week In Review.
The first post of the New Toy Tuesday reviews premiered on Catalina Loves this week. I also finally finished my interview with Satine Phoenix and took some new freckle photos.
Catalina Says has a series I wrote this week on starting your own sex blog, monetizing your sex blog, and increasing traffic to your sex blog.
The Momme Domme blog has more in the series of My Naughty Thoughts. My favorites are r’s naughty thoughts on squirting, r’s naughty thoughts on orgasmic expressions (with a hot pic of January Seraph having an orgasm).
I finally found the photographer of The Corset that Started It All and posted his pictures on Corset and Collar. There’s a nice little story there about how Martin Pelzer impacted my metamorphosis without even knowing it. There is also a lot of eye candy there for people who like sexy women in corsets and/or collars.
My favorite posts this week on Breathplay.info are a gasmask/latex fetish picture by Altered Aperture, a bondage/religion fetish picture, and Anna Rose’s perfect ballet heel fetish picture.
I personally think that Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com) is hotter than ever, but I might be a little biased. I wrote about a badly needed night of D/s, a strap-on fantasy, and the possibility of doing Dom/Domme scene with Mr. Kink.
And finally, if you go to Marky D. Sade’s sexy bondage blog, you’ll find a really cool Claire Adams scene, a bondage threesome post, and of course, a Mz. Berlin FemDom scene (HOT!) and January Seraph FemDom scene.
So there are my favorites for the week. I hope you find something you really enjoy! Please leave a comment wherever you go, so that I know what you want to see more of.