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Mr. and Mrs. Kink are Mr. and Mrs. Fetlife
It’s official. Marky D. Sade and I have accepted a proposal to work with Fetlife.com as their marketing department. We are actively seeking new relationships with companies, large and small, who are interested in advertising their products or events on the best fetish social networking site. What makes Fetlife.com the best adult, fetish, kinky, social networking site on the internet? Well, take a minute to read what Jane’s Guide had to say about it:
Take a moment and imagine a leather Facebook or Myspace, and then imagine it being run by and for kinky folks. That is exactly what Fetlife is! It is the coolest new community site out there for pervs, and it is absolutely 100% free. I had been hearing the buzz about this new spot on the web from a few of my lifestyle friends, and I finally decided to go set up an account and take a look myself. Many years ago I had been on other sites that promised community and allowed free communication, but since those sites have sold to other companies their soul has left the building and communication costs money. It is also communication that is no longer under the nurturing ownership of perverts with a personal interest in our tribe. I’d lost interest, and so had most of my friends. I was hoping that this site could be some of what I was missing on the old ones. Wow, I wasn’t disappointed! I immediately ran into some of my old friends, and then ran off to recruit new ones. It is easy to sign up. Once you have, then you set up a profile. You can add pics to it, and you’ll never run into that “you have to have such and such membership” to view pics or show them to others. There are social groups here with ongoing forum conversations, so you can sign up for topics that interest you (or create your own groups). There is a mail system that acts like a personal bulletin board for private conversations, so you don’t lose track of what has been said to anyone. You can post writing, see what your friends are doing, and a lot more. A lot of talented pervs are posting writing and engaging in conversation here. I’ve met a lot of new friends. There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way. You can write to the folks that run the site, and they will actually write you back. I’ve been in love with this place and raving about it for the last several weeks. This is one of the few sites that didn’t ask for review. I sought out the owner and asked him if I could post one. It is that good. I feel like I’m giving you guys an early Christmas gift. Go check it out! This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will stay huge as long as they keep the spirit that they have now. - Vamp
To highlight: “There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way.” and “This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will continue to stay huge…”
We couldn’t be more proud! It’s all true, too. One thing we love about being a part of the Fetlife team is that we are able to work with you, one-on-one, through each step of the way to get your ad placed in just the right spot. You can advertise broadly across the entire network, or we can target by location (country or state) and by gender (M,F,MtF,FtM and or GQ), thereby optimizing your advertising money by targeting your market, the kinksters who are looking for your company or product!
We only display three ads per page, all static and nicely placed in the F-zone. You’re not competing for attention. People will and do see them, but as Vamp pointed out in her review, they aren’t obnoxious and annoying. We’ll keep it that way! We want to continue to build Fetlife the way it was intended - by (real) Kinksters for (real) Kinksters!
For more information on advertising on Fetlife.com, please contact us at mark@fetlife.com or catalina@fetlife.com. And feel free to grab that banner up above and link it from your site to Fetlife.com. :)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Support The NCSF and You Should, Too!
I am overwhelmed with emotion and at a loss for words at the outpouring of support that people in our community have shown our family by donating prizes for the raffle, buying tickets, cross posting to spread the word, and the kind words that have gotten us through a very difficult time. We are proud to say that our personal need has been met and good (us, the sinners) triumphs over evil (them, the morally superior). To feed off of Graydancer’s post, we have proven that “a community proving that a community of pervs cares more about her education than an administration full of assholes.”
This means that instead of being my personal mission to fight for my daughter, I am on a bigger mission for the greater cause. I recognize that I am not the only person going through this battle. In fact, it’s a series of small battles that are all a part of a greater war on personal freedom, often with children in the crossfire.
This shouldn’t happen, but if you’re living an alternative lifestyle, it very well could happen to you. The only way to combat it is to put on the armor, link up arm-in-arm, and take them on as a commUNITY. That is exactly what I’ve seen in the last few days and I think we can do more!
The raffle continues, as it is scheduled to end on Sunday (8/17/08) at 10pm, but from this point forward, all proceeds will be going to the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom as a contribution from the community that has stood together and won this battle. This is our way of supporting the war that has been waged in the land of the free against personal and sexual freedom. At the end of the year, the refunded monies will also be donated on behalf of this community.
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities, who often face discrimination because of their sexual expression.
My deepest gratitude to those who have supported and continue to support this cause. I have never felt such a sense of community in my entire life. So here is the current prize list for the new official National Coalition for Sexual Freedom raffle. Check back, as we seem to be adding prizes daily.
From Lochai there are three 5×7 museum signed prints from his recent exhibit at the World Erotic Art Museum, two of them are not only museum signed prints, but are also very limited editions.
Alley Bound and Curves are a limited edition of 10 museum signed prints. If you win, you will receive either 6/10 or 7/10. Beach Bound is Lochai’s iconic World’s Most Erotic Photograph winning piece, and is a signed museum print. (Sold normally at $75/print)
Ellie Lumpesse has donated three books:
The Straight Girl’s Guide to Sleeping With Chicks by Jen Sincero
Aqua Erotica by Mary Anne Mohanraj
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue
Ellie is also offering:
a 30-minute private phone session (that can include her amazingly sexy man) if you win.
Sam donated:
custom, hand made jewelry (a necklace and earring set) to a runner up. “It’s not a kinky prize, but pretty,” she said. Pretty indeed! Take a look: http://quem98.livejournal.com/306470.html
a signed 8×10 print of any one of their photographs
a copy of the book, The Mammoth Book of Illustrated Erotic Women.
And Thursday has also offered:
one of her sexy (orgasmic) voicemails to a lucky winner. Let me tell you, that is one hot prize.
The writer of Between My Sheets offered:
A brand new, still in the package, never been used Silver Bullet Vibe.
And just now I heard from my Naughty Secretary who offered:
Her services as a graphic designer. There are two separate prizes - each being two hours of graphic design time (normally charged at $120/hr). In addition to participating in this raffle, she is doing her own auction to raise money. She is sponsoring a silent auction of one of her paintings on her web page.
Edward, from Exjinn.net, the company that hosts all of our blogs and provides us without outstanding support and service, has offered:
A 50 gig hosting plan from Exjinn.net with 1-year of service.
just donated a copy of the book, Wetter, with her story signed personally for you. As if that weren’t generous enough, she has also offered an 8×10 print!
Sabrina Fox - does the name ring a bell?
Sabrina Fox, as in the redhead hot as fuck bondage and fetish model, Sabrina Fox, was chatting with me today and mentioned that she has a few pairs of latex panties that she recently wore for a photoshoot that would offer as prizes. Latex panties worn by Sabrina Fox, anyone? Oh wait until I tell W about this when she is older.
Jeff Mach commented: (THANK YOU, JEFF!) [This is one of those prizes that I would like to know if you would like to be entered to win. If you're not in the area and can't use the tickets, then they would do you no good, but if you are in that area, then it's a great prize!]
I am running a New Year’s Eve fetish event in New Jersey at the end of this year (on NYE itself). I’ll offer a ticket (that is, admission for two people, including gourmet meal and champagne)
and
I run the Wicked Winter Renaissance Faire, now entering its fourth year, every February - again, in Jersey. We’re going to three days this year, and tickets for all three days would usually be at $40; I can donate two pairs of those, as well.
I feel like George from “It’s a Wonderful Life”. Graydancer, who posted a very insightful post about the society that we live in, just twittered me (it sounds dirtier than it is) and said:
I didn’t realize you were adding prizes. Throw in an audiobook version of my novel, “Nawashi“.
Rose Fox offered a very generous and naughty prize — a very good combination for this crowd!:
I used to review DVDs for AVN, and I’m still on Vivid’s mailing list, so now I have a closet full of unopened Vivid porn DVDs. I’ve been trying to figure out how to donate them someplace and would be delighted to offer them for your cause.
There are too many to catalog, so perhaps 10 “grab bags” of ten DVD’s? I’d do my best to include a varied selection so that the winner is fairly likely to get at least a few titles that suit their tastes.
(Just a note on this: because of the laws regarding the selling of pornography, the winners would need to submit a copy of their ID to Rose in order for her to be able to send them to you.)
Beautiful Rebecca has offered:
an original piece of sensual art from the artist. It was scheduled for a gallery show next year but we would much rather have it go to your cause as it hit home. It is 3×4 metal with an object representing a uterus called, “Oikos Cella”.
Alternatively, for those who win, but don’t feel that this art is right for their home, she is an interior designer and has offered to do a consultation for a room re-do. The details are kind of extensive, so I’ll discuss it with the winner personally.
Ms. Nikki Nefarious and AlteredAperture.com) has donated prints and a rope kit:
Collette for TABU Magazine 8 x 12
Jamie in Latex 8 x 12
Girl’s Best Friend 8 x 12
Scream 8 x 10
GarGirl Bound 8 x 10
The Enforcer 8 x 10
Sarah Sealed 8 x 10
Red Hood 8 x 10
and then A Starter Rope Package (4-pack of multi-colored ropes in different lengths and hemp rope cuffs)
Lily, who calls herself Lily (the rope ho) in her comment has donated
3 x 30ft hand-dyed, processed 6mm hemp kit
Radical Vixen, who most of you know as the editor of the weekly sex blog digest, Sugasm, is a very active political advocate. She has offered two books for the raffle:
She’s on Top: Erotic Stories of Female Dominance and Male Submission
Sex and Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me
Thank you, so much! I cannot tell you how moved I am by the random kindness of the community. Lochai’s the one who started the commUNITY concept, but I get it better than ever now.
I’m officially re-launching the “Catalina’s Emergency Tuition Fund Raffle” as the “The Battle Is Won, But the War is Not Over” raffle with all remaining proceeds from this point forward going to NCSF.
Here is the link to buy your virtual ticket.
Tickets are $10.00 each, you can buy as many as you’d like (if you’d like to donate $50.00, for example, I’ll enter your name 5 times). You are not obligated to buy a virtual ticket. You can also just donate to a very worthy cause at any amount.
I really will write down names and put them in a hat, and my daughter can pick the winners. At this point, she is well-aware of what is going on. We’ll choose the winners on August 17th at 10 pm. You will be notified by 10:30 pm by email. Heck, we’ll even try to find someone to film it and show it to you all :)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink and The Best Sex Bloggers (in the world!)
Graphic Design by Naughty Secretary
Looking for a good blog with all the best sex bloggers and erotic photography in one place? You’re in luck! We were, too. BestSexBloggers.com is it!
The best sex bloggers collaborate with the best erotic and bondage photographers to produce the best sex blog content you’ll find in one place on the internet. Here’s a rundown of what you’ll find here (in no particular order other than as it comes to me):
BDSM, Dom, Domme, Submissive, Online D/s, Vanilla, Queer, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Poly, Psychology, Sexuality, Discussion, Photography, Sociology, Podcasts, Bondage (including beautiful rope bondage by well-respected bondage artists), Erotic Fiction, Tales of Adventures, Sexual Fantasies, Hot Couples, Kink, Fetish, Phone Sex Operators, Professional Sex Writers, Reviews, Photoblogs, Education and Information, Smut, Filth, Flirting, HNT, Networking, Featured Artists, Local Events, Poetry, and even just once in a while a tale about the weird lives we tend to lead.
Represented here are:
The Accidental Blowjob
Aiming to Arouse
Altered Aperture
Blue-Eyed Vixen
Bottoms Up! …and, and then some
BT Charles
Curvaceous Dee
Dangerous Lilly
Diary of a Kinky Librarian
Easily Aroused
Eclectic Enchantress
Ellie Lumpesse
The Enigmatic Angel
Erocrush
Essin’ Em
Exjinn.net
Fanny Lucette
FetLIfe
Graydancer
His lolidoll
Janice
Kinkerbelle
Mystress Lady Evyl
Lady Sascha
A Little Cinful
Lochai
Long Distance Sub
Married Exploits
Ms. Nikki Nefarious
Narration by D
Naughty Secretary
Priapus
Radical Vixen
Reality Nemesis
Sakura Sarashi
Sapphire J
Scarlet Lotus
Stark-Arts
Sugarbutch Chronicles
Sweatshop Sissy
Thursday’s Child
Tits For Troops
Trufetish
Unspeakable Axe
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Aren’t The Only Kinky Ones… Take A Look!
Hot Spanking Image by AlteredAperture.com
Each week the editor of The Week in Kink chooses two posts from her favorite sex blogs to highlight. It’s so difficult to choose just two.
Catalina Loves:
Catalina Says:
The Momme Domme:
Corset and Collar:
- Mz Berlin Took This Picture of Herself in Her New Corset From Wasp Creations
- Sexy B&W Corset Photo by Fetish-Photography.net
Breathplay Fetish Blog:
- Gas Mask Play and Forced Orgasms on Wired Pussy (with Satine Phoenix)
- The Hottest Gasmask Fetish Erotica I’ve Ever Read
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):
Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:
- The Coolest Bondage Fetish Edgeplay Picture Ever Taken
- Madison Young in Medical Fetish Bondage Scene on Sex and Submission
Ms. Nikki Nefarious:
Naughty Secretary:
Easily Aroused:
Thursday’s Child:
Narration by D:
Ellie Lumpesse:
Curvaceous Dee:
Mz Berlin’s Blog:
- Jewell Marceau knocks me out and has her filthy way with me (Clips4Sale)
- Mz Berlin misses out on ultraviolence and the old in/out, no droogs or drugs
Kinkerbelle:
Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. The Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list, the list grows and grows and grows… maybe we should start doing it twice a week? The mid-week in kink? I don’t know. You tell me!
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present The Week In Kink (#5)
[This beautiful image is of Narration by D. I can't even begin to express how much I want him.]
Catalina Loves:
Catalina Says:
The Momme Domme:
Corset and Collar:
- Is It Thursday Yet?
- I want it! I want it! I want it! I want it! It’s At Exquisite Restraints Corsets
Breathplay Fetish Blog:
- A Hot Medical FemDom Scene With Mz. Berlin, Kayla Paige, And A Dirty Sponge Gag
- Liberator Sex Ramp/Wedge Combo: Sex Furniture Built To Last
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):
- Mr. Kink Uses Mrs. Kink The Way She Was Meant To Be Used
- Way Back Wednesday: You Don’t Get To Tell Me No
Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:
- Fetish Model Mz. Berlin is Tied Up and Forced To Suck Cock and Fuck
- Sgt. Major puts Claire Adams in Full Suspension Bondage
Mz. Berlin’s Blog:
Married Exploits:
No Limits: His slave’s Total Submission:
Kinkerbelle:
Curvaceous Dee:
Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. The Week In Kink with a few new friends on the
Our Kinky Gift To You - This Week In Kink
Catalina Loves:
Catalina Says:
The Momme Domme:
Corset and Collar:
- Mz. Berlin is Fierce in This Demask Corset and Fishnet Stockings
- Catalina’s New Daytime/Public Collar
Breathplay Fetish Blog:
- Sgt. Major and Claire Adams in a Hot Erotic Choking Scene
- Fetish Model Anna Rose in Pony Girl Bondage Scene
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):
Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:
- Fetish Model Mz. Berlin Taught To Suck Cock On The Training of O
- Mistress Harmony Rose + Men In Pain = CBT, Strap On Pegging, and Forced Cum Eating
Mz. Berlin’s Blog:
Married Exploits:
Thursday’s Child Has Far To Go:
Kinkerbelle:
Curvaceous Dee:
Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:
Naughty Secretary:
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. This Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list. We’ll see how big this list grows!
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present This Week In Kink
[The Official Return of The Red Hair ::wild applause:: Photo by Altered Aperture.]
Well, it’s official. Every Friday I’m going to do This Week In Kink for you. I’m not only going to include our blogs, but the blogs of my friends, as well. I’m also going to just pick the top TWO posts instead of THREE because the list is getting a little long. As usual, please let me know what you think.
Catalina Loves:
Catalina Says:
The Momme Domme - From Professional Mom(me) To Professional Domme
Corset and Collar:
Breathplay Fetish Blog:
- Hot Wax On Thursday’s Child Makes Me Glad That Today Is Thursday
- Hot Wax Play and Erotic Choking During Rough Anal Scene with Audrey Hollander
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):
Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:
- Sgt. Major Makes Claire Adams Submit and Cum on Backdoor Bondage
- Beautiful Bondage On Into The Attic
Mz. Berlin’s Blog:
- I have fetish clips for sale…I have built it, you will cum (har de har har)
- My first time with the Training of o
Atlanta Bondage:
Thursday’s Child Has Far To Go:
Kinkerbelle:
Curvaceous Dee:
So there you have it. This Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list. We’ll see how big this list grows!
Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s This Week In Kink
It’s time for The Kinky Week In Review! You’ll see a few new blogs in the list this week. That’s because I’ve added my new site (ColdplayLiveArchive.com) and a couple of friends’ blogs to the The Week In Kink.
Catalina Loves:
I was really busy this week — Nikki and I shot together again for the Liberator review, as well as some fetish video. We started doing some behind the scenes clips, as well, during our shoots. Last night we shot a strap-on scene with a subbie boy. This week I also dug up my version of the framed dollar bill, my first blog post, and reposted it. As it turns out, it’s a good thing I did, since my Myspace was deleted yesterday. Fuck Myspace. It’s the equivalent of having your hard drive crash. Over a year’s worth of blogs and comments and it’s all just gone… forever… without warning. Here’s my new profile.
- Catalina loves Her First Blog Post Ever
- Catalina loves Oral Sex With Mr. F
- Catalina loves Vibrators (A Review of the G Twist)
Catalina Says:
Catalina Says is more and more evolving into my own personal journal that isn’t necessarily sex related.
The Momme Domme - From Mommy To Dom(my)
This week on TMD there are more of r’s naughty thoughts. They are hot. He talks about wheelchair bondage, enemas, sexual fantasies, submission, and fetishes.
- r’s naughty thoughts on wheelchair bondage and sex
- r’s naughty thoughts on submission, fetishes, and enemas
- r’s naughty thoughts on our Mistress/slave relationship
Corset and Collar:
I love doing C&C. It’s fun to pick out pictures and then just write a little something about them. It’s such a non-demanding, easy to administer, blog. It’s the Good Girl of the blog family. This week I customized the CSS code to completely change the layout. I like it. I added a header and made the whole thing black and white. Please drop a comment if you go there and let me know what you think.
- January Seraph (in latex) and Mz. Berlin (at her feet)
- January Seraph in a Corset and Collar (on CorsetandCollar.com)
- Steve Diet Goedde cinches up Tall Goddess’ corset
Breathplay:
Breathplay.info is always interesting because I find new fetishes that interest me as a result of writing the blog. For example, this week I featured a latex nun costume that I thought was really hot.
- The Nuns At My School Didn’t Dress Like This
- Crucifixion Fetish, Religion Fetish, Blond Fetish, or Just Plain Art?
- All You Need To Explore Puppy Play (even though the picture is really pony play, but I thought it looked more like a puppy)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):
Our sex is better than ever, due to the new Liberator Sex Shapes and the sweetest love letter ever written from a Husband to his Wife.
- The Latest Love Letter from Mr. Kink
- Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Unbelievably Good Sex Last Night
- Way-Back Wednesday: Giving Up Control
ColdplayLiveArchive.com:
It’s no secret that Catalina loves Coldplay. For a while now I’ve owned ColdplayLiveArchive.com and I haven’t done anything with it - so I just started working on it. I won’t post any of my picks from CLA.com because they are all just re-posts at this point, from Catalina Loves. Next week there will be a show for you to download.
Marky D. Sade:
Well, I don’t write MDS, but I am including it because it is Marky’s blog.
- Two Busty Redhead Femdoms in CBT, Pegging, and Strap-on Pegging With Rubber Slave Boy
- Harmony Rose is Caned, Fucked, and Forced To Cum on The Training of O.
- Asian Fetish Model Jandi Lin, Sarah Jane, and Mistress Claire Adams Get Fucked Up on Device Bondage
Mz. Berlin’s Blog:
This is the premiere of Mz. Berlin’s Blog in The Kinky Week In Review. I thought I’d start including some of my friends’ blogs also. Poor Mz. Berlin’s Myspace was deleted this week (fuckers), so please make friends with her at her new Myspace page (Myspace.com/MzBerlin).
- Mz. Berlin In The Sun With Family
- I Am The Molly Shannon of Fetish
- So Myspace Fucked Me. I Was Deleted (WTF?)
Atlanta Bondage:
I love the Atlanta Bondage Blog because we both have common interests in writing about and promoting fetish models and photographers in a classy way. This is also the first time I’ve included Atlanta Bondage in the Kinky Week in Review. If y’all like it, I’ll keep including my friends.