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Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present Sugasm #144 - BestSexBloggers.com was Editor’s Choice (Audacia Ray)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #145? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”?
“The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better succeed.”
First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship
“The only real trouble with being a triad came from the world around us.”
Sex Work And Compassion: Panty Tree
“I will never feel shame for being a sex worker.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
I Meet the Business End of Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Dreams
Needs. I has them.
On Feeling June Cleaverish
Saturday Night
Strippers and race
The Sunday Squirt
Under the Covers
Whenever we’re apart…
Sex Humor
Impertinent Question: Do You Name Your Genitals?
BDSM & Fetish
Anatomy of a Mindfuck
Brutal caning punishments for school girls’ filthy behaviour
Caning; La marca del deseo.
Claire Adams Does Some Wonderful Shibari Rigging In This Scene From The Whipped-Pussy Archives
Mz Berlin (Me!) & Madison Young In Bondage Slave Training
Ring Around the Collar
Two school girls in uniform spanked and caned over the bench.
Witch Stories
Whoring Hubby Spanked - F/m Spanking Pix
Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Using Coke And Lying About It
Controlling the Urge to Ejaculate
How To Pick A Dildo
Pull My Hair, Slap Me Around - A How-To Guide To Rough Sex, Part 1
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Catalina loves Masculinity
It’s been a while - lots of stuff going on!
Satine Phoenix Says, “Save thousands on therapy, go to your reunion!!?”
Wax On; Wacks Off
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Fetish Model Toxxxy In Cotton Panties Smearing Jam All Over Herself
FunseXXXtoys Public Baptismal
The Jollie Review For Babeland
Sex on Spout
Sgt Major Makes Jade Marxxx Beg For Pain On Backdoor Bondage
Spanking interview with Thomas S. Roche
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #21: Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net
Elaisted is to Corset Photography what Phelps is to Swimming!
Photo Essay
Sex & Politics
The Dilemma of Jefferson: My Dissenting Voice
Friends of Jefferson, Spanking for Justice!
Note: While the Sugasm is back there are still a few bugs to sort out. The submission form isn’t working. For now please send your submission to me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom If you don’t see your post above it probably got lost during the server move. The featured pic will be returning soon. Thanks for your patience!
Mr. Kink Sets Thursday’s Slut Free
[Posted Originally At Thursday's Child - He sets my slut free.]

Taken with my iPhone at the moment of orgasm…for him, for her, for all three of them.
I was having the most awful day. But somehow, he knew what I needed. He sent me a message, telling me
“Your day sucks because you’ve forgotten you are a slut. Go CUM now! If you want me to take you THERE, you must obey. Free will surrendered.”
I sat there for a moment, cheeks burning, reading those words over and over, feeling the heat between my legs grow from an ember to an out of control forest fire. I squeezed my thighs together, enjoying the desire shooting through me, feeling my nipples harden into obvious points beneath the thin fabric of my shirt. His order went against everything I’d ever told myself, about separating my sex life and work persona, about never crossing that line.
I forced myself to get up, to shut off every single, coherent, logical thought in my head. To silence the little voice asking me what I was doing, telling me to sit back down in my cubicle and shut my phone off. I slipped my phone into my pocket, walked calmly to the office bathroom, and locked the door behind me.
My lust, my desire, my need, it all overflowed in one wonderful moment, and I was up against the wall, pants unbuttoned, panties pushed down, and my fingers between my wet lips, thrusting into me, fucking me. I could hear the voices of my coworkers as they passed outside the door, not five feet from where I masturbated myself. Hearing them going about their mundane office tasks turned me on even more, and I was so close, right on the edge.
Thinking about them, spending every day working with me, and yet having no idea of what a whore I could be, ohmygod, it was sofuckinghot, and I started to come, so hard that I had to bite into my lip to stop any sound, any groan or whimper from escaping and giving me away and exposing my secrets.
I stayed there for a while, leaning against the wall, trying to steady my breaths from ragged pants back to normal. I snapped a few pic to send to him, to his wife, to my husband. I wanted them all to know what I’d done for him.
Walking back to my desk, I wondered if everyone was watching me, if they could somehow tell what I had just done. I wondered if my slightly disheveled hair gave me away, or maybe they could smell my musky scent on the tips of my fingers, see the glassy look in my eyes as my body recovered from orgasm. I texted him, told him what I’d done. And he was proud of me, writing back
“Good girl. I’m very proud of you. See how sexy you are? D loves a very sexy slut. Integrating your Slut can be liberating…
Alright. Enough. Sit at your desk and think of Catalina in cumslut mode, sitting next to her as she sucks me off, right there in your office, in front of everyone. Think of the sounds, the smell, as I pump my cum down her throat. All eyes are on YOU. Your coworkers. Peers, friends, and enemies.
Kiss her, Thursday. Taste my cum on the lips of this woman, in front of everyone.”
I cannot begin to articulate how badly I want to be that for him, for both of them, and for my D…
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Play with Thursday’s Child and Narration by D
…at least over the phone…
So yesterday D told me that he wanted me to masturbate and come for him on his voicemail so he could listen to it whenever and wherever he wanted to. So I waited for the golden hour when kids are either gone or napping and took Mr. Kink and my phone into my bedroom, laid down on the bed, and dialed the phone with one hand while using my Magic Wand with the other.
I laid there, trying not to come too quickly whie I went through all the “You have reached the mailbox of…” bullshit and then finally it was my time to leave a message. MDS told me I had to tell him what I was doing, and that I wanted him to fuck me, and all sorts of naughty things and as I was spewing out filth from my lips, I began to come.
An hour or so later, my phone rings. I let it go to voicemail. I’m on my union smoke break! It rings again, okay, clearly someone is trying to get in touch, not leave a message. It’s D, so I answer.
“Hello?”
And on the other end, all I can hear is Thursday’s little whimpers and moans as she’s obviously being fucked by D. Mr. Kink and I sat there on the other end, sharing the phone ear-to-ear, listening as D was getting her off and then suddenly he (MDS) picked me up and threw me down on the bed, stripped off my pants (no panties) and fucked me. So as they were fucking, so were we.
I came not once, not twice, but thrice. (Inside joke for MDS) I came once just being fucked and twice with his tongue, all while listening to D and Thursday doing the same on the other end.
After Shiva knows how long, we said… pant, pant, pant… love you guys, talk to you later!
Hot, no? YES! We officially love Thursday and D, individually and as a couple.
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present The Good Things List (#6)
This week’s Good Things List is brought to you by the letter V (for valium) and the number 10 (for the dose)… and readers like you! (PS: JOIN FETLIFE!)
A Good Blog To Read
Narration by D is this week’s blog pick. D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child. It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.” D is in my BILF list. His wife is also in my BILF list. They as a couple are in my BILF list. Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!
A Good Toy
I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity. I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price. You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!). You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally. I just love it! Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation. That matters!
A Good Photographer
Erocrush. Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush. His work is special to me. He is special to me. I consider him a very good friend. He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs. I know that you have enjoyed them. Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market. He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys. With real women, that he enjoys. With real couples. One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there. It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur. I love Melvin. I want Melvin to shoot me. With any luck at all, this fall, he will. Then I will have my way with him! If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site. Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!
A Good Pay Site
Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site. She has been shooting their own content like crazy. She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women. This is Brand Spanking New! January isn’t, of course. She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it!
A Good Blogger Resource
The Week In Kink. Duh. I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note. Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com. I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm. It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts. :)
A Good Group
It’s widely known that I love FetLife. I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special. What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!) If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group. The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.
A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source
This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more. Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields. Now, you can learn from them. Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there. Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai? Oh my… You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams. OMG. I’m in heaven.
Afternoon Delight With Pandora
Like I mentioned in yesterday’s post, there is this golden hour around 4:00 pm when we are alone, in our room, for about an hour. The big one puts the little one down for a nap and so we have an entire hour of privacy. I’m usually found upstairs at this time, in our bedroom writing. We’re one of those weird couples that spends a ridiculous amount of time in our room. It’s really more like the family room.
Marky lays down next to me, I’m usually sitting in bed with my laptop. He rubs my back while he rubs his cock, talking about last night’s sex usually. I end up putting my laptop aside and either giving him a handjob, a blowjob, or watching him masturbate while kissing his ear and licking his nipple. Sometimes it’s a combination of the three. I never really feel like having an orgasm myself, usually, at that time.
However, a couple of days ago, my new toys arrived from VibeReview.com right at the Golden Hour. I kicked the kids out, exiled to their own room, and called Marky in. In the box was the Pandora, a little prostate massage toy. I requested it specifically for Marky to test out. We opened it up and checked it out. It was ready to be tried out, right out of the package - we didn’t even have to install batteries!
I didn’t read anything about the Pandora before I started playing with it, so I was surprised to see that it had preprogrammed vibe sensations. Seven of them, to be exact - aside from the slow, medium, intense vibe setting, there are also pulses of vibration programmed at different intervals. I think part of the fun was trying out all the different sensations on different body parts. “Do you like this? How about this? Which was better?” (Our session was much like going to the optometrist)
I rubbed the Pandora all over his cock with different parts of it on different parts of Him. I put the tip of it slightly into his urethra, not enough to stretch, just for the “what do you think?” factor. I hooked the Pandora over his cock and pinned his cock to his stomach. He thought that kind of felt good, actually, when I put a bit of pressure on it. I touched it to his balls, to the base of his cock, to his perineum, and down to his ass. As I did, his cock got stiff and he began to stroke himself.
I lubed up the Pandora and touched the tip to his ass. It slid in very easily. It’s very slim and by all reports, not at all painful. I pushed the little button on the bottom of the Pandora and set the speed to a rhythmic pulsing and watched as pre-cum started to drip out of His cock while he slowly stroked it. I leaned over and licked it off and grabbed my new vibrator.
I laid on my back in front of him so that he could watch me and I slid it into my wet pussy. I fucked myself with my new vibrator while he masturbated with his new vibrator and the end result was I came. When I came and pulled the vibrator out, he pulled me on top of him and slid his cock into me, the Pandora still in place. With him on his back and me on top, I rode his cock. It felt fantastic, but I wanted it to feel better! So I took the tip of my new vibe and stuck it between us on my clit. Within a few minutes I came again, all over his cock, squeezing as I orgasmed.
I rolled off of him, panting and sweaty, and laid my head on his chest, milking his cock slowly with my hand until he came. I watched as he peaked, cum flowing down over my hand like a lava flow, and then licked my fingers. Our hour was up. Time to go back to the responsibilities of parenthood. I cleaned up our new toys and returned them to the toy box next to my bed, and opened the door for business.
If She Were Here
“If she were here, I would tell her to suck your cock right now,” I whispered into his ear.
Masturbating together is a pretty normal thing at our house. When one of us wants to masturbate, the other usually is there for “moral support.” More often than not we either masturbate together when we are tired at night or He masturbates (at some random time of the day) and I touch him, kiss him, lick his neck, suck his nipples, tickle his ass, and whisper naughty thoughts into his ear. This time, though, he was just finishing himself off after having gotten me off three times.
“I would hold her hair back so you could see her suck you off, pushing her head down gently the way you like it. She and I would get down on our knees and take turns sucking your cock and licking your balls. Imagine our two tongues wrestling over the head of your cock, fighting for those first drops of pre-cum. You could lay us on the bed, side-by-side, finger fuck one of us while fucking the other.”
I felt his fingers from his left hand slide into my pussy, which was now wet from my little fantasy I had created.
“I would put my collar on her and spank her ass for taking my attention away from me, and then tell her to get on her tummy, holding her ass open for you and guiding your cock into her ass,” I said as I touched his ass with the tip of my left index finger and gave it a little tickle.
“She wishes she were Catalina Ramirez, that she were here right now to take your cum into her body, swallow it and take you into her soul.”
I licked him behind his ear the way I know it drives him crazy.
“I would make her please me with her tongue while you fuck her from behind…”
Apparently, that was the image that did it. He came. I love to watch my Husband come. He does it with great force and velocity. I watched as he released his energy and relaxed back into my loving best friend. I looked at him with great love, and then licked the cum off of his tummy. “Mmmmmmmm. I love your cum,” I said, and smiled sweetly.




