Viva la Vida by Coldplay
All the best things I could find for you in one week, and some things I have forgotten to include for a while now. I’m a little late this weekend, because I spent a little too much time socializing. However, in my own defense, against myself, I would say that I have worked 18 hour days 7 days a week for … what seems like an eternity. Okay, enough self-rationalization. I’m late, but no rabbit had to die. Here is this week’s Good Things List - hopefully it’s a better version than Martha’s.
A Good Blog To Read!
Fanny Lucette is a Ph.D. psychology professor, with M.A. degrees in related fields. She has been a counselor and educator for many years. She recently wrote a guest post for me on Catalina Loves (thank you thank you thank you!!) and she will be joining the new community blog that will launch soon at bestsexbloggers.com. Her blog is not a sex blog per se, but as she describes it on her page, “All of us have questions about relationships, sexual thoughts or behaviors. My life experiences and professional credentials will help you sort through it all.” So take a look and hit your RSS feeds because you’ll want to keep up with Ms. Lucette once you’ve started reading.
A Good (Strap On) Dildo
Strap on play. Three little words, but they can invoke an entire mental scene, can’t they? Strap-on sex. Imagine the scene. Is it a lesbian scene? Do you see it as a Domme/sub scene? Is it a loving couple experimenting with assplay together? It really can be any and it can be all. The fact is, I have used strapons with women, as a professional dominatrix, and also as a loving wife (even a submissive loving wife, at that). I choose the Corsette Harness as my new favorite strap on harness because it’s soft, velvety, black, feminine, and (important for practical purposes) it adjusts easily so it’s easy to slip in and out of gracefully.
A Good Podcast
Graydancer’s “The Ropecast” is the new home of the premiere rope bondage podcast. This podcast talks about kinky sex, consensual adult bondage, and discusses dominance, submission, sado-masochism, and the iniquieties of the square knot in a frank, open, and entertaining way. (I didn’t write that, by the way, but it is all true and well-written, so why re-invent the wheel? I copied and pasted from The Ropecast site).
A Good Book
It’s going to become very obvious to you soon, so I’ll just ‘fess up now - I am definitely kissing Graydancer’s ass this week. Why? Because I’ve admired him for so long and I practically begged him to be a part of bestsexbloggers.com. I told him that I would, in fact, kiss his ass, if he would join. He joined, so here is Graydancer’s book, Nawashi - A Novel of Erotic Magic. Take a lookee and buy a coppee.
A Good Educational Opportunity
Did you know that you can take free courses online from MIT (yes, that’s the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, MIT). Well, kind of. Read carefully, but essentially they make their course materials available online and though you don’t get credit for it, you can learn for the sake of learning. Now here’s the cool thing, to me, anyway. I thought that MIT only offered courses in science and math. I was wrong. Here is the course description of the course I’m currently taking:
Este semestre la materia combina obras ya canonizadas de finales del siglo XIX y del XX con algunas obras de reciente aparición. De los géneros literarios, vemos poesía, el cuento corto, la novela y la autobiografía. También vemos una película de tema ficticio y dos documentales. El estudiante que se interese por hacerlo puede usar los materiales en la Reserva y en la red para familiarizarse con la historia literaria y cinematográfica de este período. Nuestro enfoque principal, sin embargo, será leer bien y de modo analítico, textos literarios de diferentes momentos históricos y culturas nacionales (e internacionales). Aunque discutiremos analíticamente las tres películas, su interés principal para nosotros será, en un caso, conocer el argumento ideológico de una novela muy famosa e influyente que, por falta de tiempo, no vamos a poder leer en sus totalidad, y en los dos otros casos, para contextualizar una autobiografía y tener un punto de comparación para estudiar cómo se puede reconstruir la memoria simultáneamente individual y colectiva. Otros temas, que se estudiarán en varias obras, serán el bilingüismo (español/inglés) en ciertos escritores hispanoamericanos contemporáneos, y el auge de la novela best seller en la América Hispana.
So, in case you can’t tell, that’s an advanced Spanish literature course. Who knew I could brush up on my primary field of study with free online courses from MIT?! I just found out recently, but I’m on it! The Catalina Downer Disclaimer: You might have to buy books and don’t forget that books are not free. Ever. So, though the courses are free, you can’t necessarily say that you can take any class you want for free. Sorry. But this is about as close as you can get!
A Good Corset (and lingerie)
Mio Destino is located in Europe, but delivers worldwide and has a domestic office. Their corsets are undeniably quality. You’re not buying an ebay corset, this is the one you’ve been saving up for. They aren’t so horribly expensive that you can’t afford it unless you’re married to a very wealthy international finance attorney, however, they’re not cheap either. The selection is unbelievable - corsets by designer, shape, by fabric, corsets to wear out, bridal corsets, underbust corsets, and corset skirts. They are the way to go if you’re in the market for that special one.
A (PERFECT) Album
Viva la Vida by Coldplay is amazing. Brian Eno produced it, so when I first heard it, I rejected it stating simply, “I’m not interested in listening to another U2 album.” What a bitch! Now, I come back with my official opinion - “This is the best Coldplay album yet.” You must listen to it through headphones. That’s my only caveat. It sounds good over speakers, and it sounds great in the car, but there is something special about listening to it in the headphones, like being able to hear Chris quietly count off. Also, I own the official album and then I also have the special Marky D. Sade found this two weeks before it was released version. The difference is that I have two extra tracks - Lost (acoustic) and Lovers in Japan (acoustic). The trick is that you have to listen to the album, looped, without the two extra tracks. Let song 10 fade into song 1. I won’t give it away here, but just do it. It’s neato. I think my favorite song right now is Strawberry Swing. It’s a great way to start the day - Chris Martin telling you it’s such a perfect day.
We usually have good sex. I can’t remember a time when we didn’t have great sex. But whenever we have sex we always say that was the best sex ever. So again, we had the best sex ever.
I have a mountain of toys to choose from now, and even some new lingerie that I bought for a photoshoot I did with Altered Aperture the other night. So I was told to wear that lingerie and when the baby went to bed, I was told to put on my collar.
We just hung out together for a while - Marky D. Sade and Catalina - backrubs, legrubs, footrubs, touches, love, intimacy, smoking out, watching funny shows, but the vibe remained a Master/slut sexual vibe. He got up to do something and left me with instructions to put on my new strap-on harness, the one in the picture above. Same lingerie, same harness, same collar. Same everything. When he came back, I was to be lying in bed stroking my cock.
He came back to find me perfectly obedient and lay next to me telling me to stroke his cock at the same time. So there I was, two cocks in my hands, moving them at the same time with the same pressure, focusing on the new experience. He reached down to play with my pussy, putting in the glass dildo that I just received, telling me to keep it there on my own. I did. Soon he pulled it out and pulled me on top of him, telling me to ride his cock while stroking my own. I did. It’s the first time I’ve done that with Mr. Kink. It was undeniably hot. I realize there is no sensation in stroking my own cock, but we all know that isn’t the point, really.
As he fucked me and I stroked my cock, he told me to confess all my dirty thoughts to him - to tell him how it made me feel to fuck him like this with my cock in my hand. I couldn’t. I just licked his neck and nibbled his ear. He spanked me hard and demanded that I did. I still couldn’t. The thing of it is, I really in that moment could only imagine topping him and I’ve never admitted that before. He spanked me harder. Finally I sat up on his cock, my cock in my hand and it poured out, “I want to put you on your knees, put this collar and lead on you and make you the slut that you make me. I want to make you suck my cock the way I suck yours. Not because I tell you to, but because you love to suck cock the way that I do.” I was absolutely terrified. He said, “I already knew that. You can’t hide anything from me, little slut. You don’t think I know what goes through that filthy dirty mind of yours? I can read you. You know this by now.”
We fucked for a bit, talking dirty about all the filthy things that I do think about while fucking, and then he came in me. It’s been a while since he’s cum in me. Often it’s on me, because I totally dig the feeling of being cum on and then having it rubbed into my skin or to lick it of of my skin. Often it’s in my mouth, because I so love to suck cock and I so love to swallow cum. But it is rare and special when He cums inside of me. I relished it.
He grabbed my vibe and shoved it inside of my pussy, pushing me onto my back and licking my clit. I think he knows that it turns me on crazy mad to no end that he goes down on me after he cums in me. He played with me, keeping me on the brink of orgasm, but not allowing me to cum for a long time, trying out different toys and then his fist. Finally he told me to cum and I did. And when I did cum, I thought of the perfect image of being there with MDS and Lochai, having Lochai cum in my mouth as I came for MDS.
We giggled, snuggled, and MDS rubbed my head until I fell asleep. Utter perfection.
[image of Catalina by Altered Aperture]
[Photo by Melvin Moten, Jr. / Erocrush]
With all the new blogs we’re updating daily, I thought you might like a Week In Review.
The first post of the New Toy Tuesday reviews premiered on Catalina Loves this week. I also finally finished my interview with Satine Phoenix and took some new freckle photos.
Catalina Says has a series I wrote this week on starting your own sex blog, monetizing your sex blog, and increasing traffic to your sex blog.
The Momme Domme blog has more in the series of My Naughty Thoughts. My favorites are r’s naughty thoughts on squirting, r’s naughty thoughts on orgasmic expressions (with a hot pic of January Seraph having an orgasm).
I finally found the photographer of The Corset that Started It All and posted his pictures on Corset and Collar. There’s a nice little story there about how Martin Pelzer impacted my metamorphosis without even knowing it. There is also a lot of eye candy there for people who like sexy women in corsets and/or collars.
My favorite posts this week on Breathplay.info are a gasmask/latex fetish picture by Altered Aperture, a bondage/religion fetish picture, and Anna Rose’s perfect ballet heel fetish picture.
I personally think that Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com) is hotter than ever, but I might be a little biased. I wrote about a badly needed night of D/s, a strap-on fantasy, and the possibility of doing Dom/Domme scene with Mr. Kink.
And finally, if you go to Marky D. Sade’s sexy bondage blog, you’ll find a really cool Claire Adams scene, a bondage threesome post, and of course, a Mz. Berlin FemDom scene (HOT!) and January Seraph FemDom scene.
So there are my favorites for the week. I hope you find something you really enjoy! Please leave a comment wherever you go, so that I know what you want to see more of.
